Nurturing Young Minds

I have spent the last academic year in an Evangelical School in the Middle East telling them about God’s love and how they should respond to what Jesus has done.

I taught a class of 8 and 9 year olds for most of the time. Although I am not a qualified teacher (yet), God really helped me get into the swing of teaching. This gave me the chance to become really good friends with ‘my children’ and now they feel like little brothers and sisters to me! They learnt a lot over the year and their English improved greatly. I learnt a lot too and managed to understand long division for the first time!

During the week I also gave my class a Bible lesson where we read and discussed events from the Bible. Sometimes I had to cut short the streams of questions they asked, as there simply wasn’t time to answer every single one! On Thursdays I lead the chapel time in the morning, for Years 1-6; singing songs and talking about a Bible story. It was lovely to see my children’s understanding of Jesus increase over the year.

Teaching there is a very different thing to the UK. We live in an age in which using computers in the classroom is compulsory. However, where I was, you couldn’t even guarantee an electricity supply! There were usually 4-8 hours without electricity each day – some days had only 2 hours of power – so I frequently had to abandon computer lessons, singing songs off the projector and every other “normal” activity that requires electricity! We did have a diesel generator at the school, but its use was rationed because of the cost – this led to some fairly miserable, wet, snowy, winter days.

Being a Christian, my job didn’t finish at 3pm when the kids had gone home. We (the staff at the school) tried to act as Jesus would all the time; trying to show his love for us to everyone we came across. Some good discussions were had with the parents and families neighbouring the school. They listen well and some are genuinely interested in what we have to say. Whoever we met – a main opposition MP, Palestinians, Jordanians, Lebanese, Syrians, Muslims, nominal Christians, Druze and even members of an organisation classed as ‘terrorists’; we tried to show them Jesus and used words whenever the opportunity arose.

There were a few cultural hurdles to jump adjusting to life in the Middle East. One of the major blunders I made was during the Christmas play preparations. My class played the nativity scene. Casting Mary and Joseph was easy, but the animals proved to be a cultural minefield. Parents took particular dislike to donkeys, horses, goats and, in one case, animals full stop. Unknown to me, ‘donkey’ is fairly high up on the Arabic swear-words list! The kids came in with threats from their parents saying that their children were not going to come to school if they had to be a particular animal. There wasn’t much I could do, as we needed people to play the animals. The boy playing Joseph turned up wearing a Batman costume – his family had obviously never heard the story of Jesus’ birth before! I got it all sorted in the end.

You would be wrong to think that the sale of alcohol in the Middle East is prohibited everywhere. Where I lived, whisky cost less than surgical alcohol and a lot of the local men drank heavily. The mother of one boy in my class put whisky in his water to help his hayfever! I caught four of my class drinking neat whisky at breaktime (these were 8 and 9 year olds). I was not expecting this sort of thing in the Middle East!

Neither was I expecting everyone to be extremely fearful of a solar eclipse. The government closed all the state schools and the parents wouldn’t send their children to school in case they went blind. Some families hung blankets over their windows to protect them from the ‘poisonous rays’. I however gave a great science lesson to the 5 of my class who turned up – and none of us are blind!

Despite all our cultural differences, I never came across an Arab that was openly hostile to me (apart from one taxi driver that is who assumed I would pay him double as I was British!). Their friendliness to strangers is embarrassing and really puts us to shame. I’d like to encourage you to go there, there’s much more to the Middle East than the news shows. Having said that, few countries in the region have escaped trouble and strife over the years. I left the Middle East three days before the war between Israel and Hezbollah started. The wars in Iraq, Afghanistan and the Palestinian Territories have been raging for so many years. Now tensions are building in Iran – will it turn into open warfare too? The people need to hear the gospel and people like you need to tell them.

Remember what Jesus said in Matthew 9v37 “The harvest is large, but the workers are few.” The Arab World needs you. The whole world needs you.

Life Behind the Veil

Having just trained in development, I wanted to find a role where I could put my knowledge into practice, and I had a very clear interest in Middle Eastern or Central Asian countries. I was drawn to Interserve's commitment to professional standards and was not quite ready for a long-term Partner commitment, so I was delighted to discover the On Track programme.

After interview I was offered and accepted a one-year position seconded to an NGO working in Central Asia. I was to be the Technical Adviser to the management of a disability and deaf education project in the eastern region of the country. I arrived in the country's capital and within a few days began one-to-one language training. An understanding of the importance of learning the local language was also something that drew me to Interserve. It made such a difference in building relationships. The small amounts I learned were appreciated and extremely helpful.

After a month in the relatively liberal capital, I moved east to a more conservative and rural city. I lived in a spacious compound with very high walls (the norm for all nationals) which were topped with barbed wire (the norm for all foreigners). I lived with three other single women, and we had a dog and two guards. Outside our compound were open sewers and children playing. The children used to throw stones at foreigners; now they just shout names at us, identifying us as outsiders.

My daily work took me to a school for a few hundred deaf, blind and mentally disabled children. Just a small percentage are disabled from war injuries, more from untreated diseases that escalate to permanent disability, and perhaps the majority have congenital defects due to generation after generation of intermarriage. This is one of the few schools in the country where boys and girls are educated together. As they are seen as not normal, they are exempt from some of the national rules governing schools and share classes up to Grade 1, after which they are taught in single sex classes but in the same school. The hearing teachers teach in Sign Language, as do the deaf teachers for whom it is their first language.

Cultural adjustment My daily attire was a shalwar kameez (trousers and tunic) and a large chadar (scarf) that covered not only my head and shoulders but also my back down to my thighs. There are dress differences across the regions. In some areas, much smaller, almost nominal head scarves can be worn, but in the region I was in, the adherence to veiling is much more strict. Eastern women still wear the burqa when outside their home compounds. The more forward thinking families permit their women to be uncovered in their places of work and therefore seen by their male colleagues. Many long for the time when they will not have to wear the burqa.

The conservative customs of the city meant that I was not to drive and I was not to walk anywhere alone. I was not to greet any male unless he greeted me first, nor to offer my hand unless he did so first. I was not to be in a room with any man on my own, nor to laugh loudly or blow my nose in public.

Shopping, for foreign women, consists of making a shopping list for the guard and leaving him to go out and get it or sitting in the car on the bazaar road, sweating and being stared at, while the driver does your shopping for you. Kidnapping threats are regular occurrences as are random bombings in the bazaar areas.

Despite such prohibitive social practices, there are no restrictions on hospitality, which embodies the Persian saying that guests are God's friends as well as the Arabic proverb, 'A house that receives no guests, receives no angels'. We were always welcome at our friends' and colleagues' homes for meals at tables filled with freshly killed halal meat, vegetables, freshly milked yoghurt and cups and cups of green tea. If the neighbours cooked too much they would send round a plateful to us. And so we learned to do the same.

The people there know the importance of spending time with one another. Their cutlure speaks of the value of human beings not human doings: Take off your watch and sit cross-legged on the rug; do not be embarrassed about silences – speaking the same verbal language is inconsequential; sharing time and space is a blessing.

A year of challenge, a year of blessing There were hardships to the life: rare hot water and sporadic electricity; extreme heat in summer and no heating in winter; limited social options with other foreigners; no sport but what you could rouse yourself to do in your own room. And yet what a valuable year: learning about my own capacity to deal with an extremely different culture; learning a new language; living a very simple, timeconsuming life where the tasks of cooking, cleaning and washing leave little time to think of the television you do not have. A year to learn how to continue to be vibrant in my faith without the support of a local Christian community. How to minister to and encourage one another (my housemates and I) in our spiritual lives and in the trials of a life lived so contrary to what we were used to. How to survive such solitude from all the mod cons and social options of European life.

To say there were not times when I felt ashamed to be a woman, that I took on that spirit of shame which is so prevalent in that situation would be lying. There were times when I wanted to dance in the rain and laugh out loud, to wear jeans and walk bearfoot, to run up a hill, to be in male company of any sort without someone thinking ill of me.

It was at these times I had to look to the Lord and remember what he thinks of me: that I am not pure or saved by anything that I have done of my own merit or can ever do, but through the sacrifice of Jesus I can come to him as his daughter. When my love is wanting, he gives me more to pass on. When my spirit is weak, he gives me strength to persevere.

God took me to Central Asia for the year, and he was with me in all his abundance throughout. He blessed and protected those I left behind and has brought me back again, filled with ever more determination to give my life as a living sacrifice. I expected a desert and I got an oasis.